Today I'd like to talk to you about foreplay.
Have you ever started sex with a tantric massage?
If so, what did it change for you?
Do you know that doing so is already entering the world of Tantra?
But do you know all the benefits that this way of doing things brings, not only for you, and your partner, but also for your relationship whether it is lasting or ephemeral?
Here's a non-exhaustive list of the positive effects of this introduction, which I hope will convince you to go through this door and enter into this beautiful dance of union:
- Beginning a sexual relationship with a massage helps you to really listen to yourself, to the other, and to the relationship.
- Massaging your partner as a preamble to sexual intercourse allows you to discover the other person's energy and erogenous zones, so that you can better understand how they work.
- It also allows you to weave - or reweave - an intense relationship so that you can let it live and decide what needs to be experienced during this intimate moment. In fact, there's nothing better than letting yourself be guided by the relationship, to avoid any selfishness or power struggles and share the pleasure to the full. You'll find that, after a while, the connection with your partner is such that you no longer decide what to experience, it will be the relationship that guides you to the heights of shared pleasure.
- Massaging the other person gently and respectfully slows down the pace of the relationship. The slower, more relaxed pace helps to avoid any agitation, but also to make this suspended moment last.
- Using massage to bring about such a relaxation helps to avoid various sexual problems one may be facing during an act of love (erection problems, premature ejaculation, fear of pain, etc.). In fact, many of these worries stem from the pressure we may put upon the sexual intercourse. Relaxing in this way helps to relieve any feelings of stress.
- Giving yourself the time to discover the other person through a massage allows everyone to put aside their defences, fears, social conditioning and judgements and peacefully abandon themselves to the arms of love.
- Letting your hands roam over your partner's body unfolds your sexual creativity. Let them do, act, caress and surprise you.
- Finally, you may also want to massage your partner just to please them and yourself. That's the secret of a fulfilling sexual union.
If this technique has brought other phenomena to this divine moment, don't hesitate to write to me, I'll be delighted to read about your experience.
And if you want to improve your massage skills, Menâs Heartsâ Retreats are there to help! Each of our Gay Tantra events includes massage time. They range from the most traditional Tantric massages to playful Tantric massages. What a playful way to help you get to know yourself better, and to learn to relate to others in a sensitive and respectful way! We also get to explore specific massages such as prostate massage and lingam massage (male genitalia).
To find out more about our events, click here.
Yours Tantrically,
Guillaume
Menâs Heartsâ Animator
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